Advice, Help, Something

[wheezy]

I have my pregnancy test scheduled for Tues 6/22 following my 2nd IUI. But with my back pain, sore breasts etc I know that I am getting my period. I'm 33yrs old & my husband is 37yrs. All of the tests have come back fine. And I have never been pregnant. I guess that makes us "unexplained infertility" I've never really sat and cried about this as long as I am today. We put our bodies through some much (follistim/clomid) (I get so bloated at times, my suits for work don't even fit) only to be disappointed month after month. I don't know what to do :( I hate to think that God has a different plans for us and children are not in the cards. The thought of that breaks my heart. I saw my Dr. once at my consultation and never again. I'm so lost in this process. Maybe I don't ask the right questions to make sense of everything. I know there are many people who have gone through this for years.... how do you get through? I'm just feeling expecially low today. Any feedback would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance for your time.
Lisa

[giasmom]

What you're going through s*cks royally, there isnt any other way to put it. We are on our 4th IVF attempt and each time you deal with the hope and the symptoms and side affects and then you're crushed. I dont have any great words of wisdom other than to tell you its ok to feel frustrated and angry and sad. You arent alone. I have found it helps to try and forget the failures, almost erase the memory of the past cycles and look at each new cycle as a possibility. I have taken a break in between my cycles and just gave myself a free pass from thinking of a baby for that month or so. Its helped me face the new cycle with a calmer perspective. Dont know if this helps at all, but I feel for you and hope things will be brighter soon. (Oh and feel free to tell people who say "relax" "dont think about it" and "just have fun trying" to shut up!)

[AB24eva]

I'm so sorry you are having such a hard tiime dealing with all the feelings that go along with this sucky process. I have an extremely hard time handling all this sadness and anger as well. I don't have any magic cure however, I do think that you should look into acupuncture if you haven't already. I started 6 months ago and if anything, it has helped me relax and become a little less anxious. I have a great acupuncturist on Long Island who charges discounted fees! let me know if you want her name and number.
hang in there
xoxo

[wheezy]

Thank you both so much for taking the time to respond to me. It makes me feel less lonely. My hopes and prayers are with all of you as well.

As for the acupuncturist, I would love the name and number! I had a hard time relaxing before all this started :(

Thanks again.
Love,
Lisa

[AB24eva]

Her name is Roberta Klein Seigalson. Her number is 516 766 1717 . her initial fee is $75 and her follow up sessions are $35. She is amazing and at that price it's so worth my trip from Queens:) She's in Oceanside NY right off of Sunrise Highway. Call her! You are not alone:) I know it may feel like you are alone at times but please know we are all here for you if you need to vent:) another great network is resolve/inspire.com
not sure if that's the correct address but if you google resolve/infertility u will find it.
good luck and if you do make an appointment tell Roberta Alli from Forest Hills sent you please:))
xoxo

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